Actress Richa Chadha has expressed her criticism over the double standards our culture follows in treating women. She said that Indian culture is hypocritical, as on one hand we worships several goddesses but at the same time the plight of the common women in our country is deplorable.
Richa says the huge divide between people worshiping goddesses and at the same time neglecting women is an issue, which has baffled her ever since she was a child. "India is one of those few countries in the world where violence against women starts in the womb, before the girl is even born. We have to overcome the hypocrisy in our culture.
On one hand, we celebrate Navratri, nine days of fasting for the goddess, then Durga Pooja... All kinds of goddesses in India are worshiped and praised than in any other culture," Richa said. "But when it comes to our women, daughters, wives, mothers, sisters, we have a completely different standard.
That has baffled me since I was a child," she said. The "Masaan" star was speaking at a panel discussion on "Gender Based Violence in India". The event was held to commence the program for the 'Justice Institute' in association with the Avon Foundation and Vital Voices.
The 29-year-old-actress said that it is important to educate men on how to treat women and give confidence to girls that they can achieve what they want in life. "Girls know they are at par... More than educating them we need to give them confidence that they can do whatever they want to in life. It is also about educating the men how to treat women. "It stars from there.
From the patriarch, the person in-charge of the power, who is conditioning everybody else to a certain way of life." Richa, however, believes that the transition will take time, as gender-based violence is an issue, which has its roots in traditions and religion.
"It will take a lot of time because somewhere we are conditioned into thinking a certain way, it is a very large topic. It includes culture, religion, and tradition. "It's time we question some stuff. When somebody from outside questions it, we get defensive. But we must question our own culture and use the best aspects of it." Richa says often sexual assaults victims are stigmatised, because of which they are hesitant to come out and talk about it.